Erickson's Stage of Intimacy versus Isolation

 

To be able to be intimacy with your partner you need to overcome identity vs. role confusion.  So basically, you need to have a good understanding of yourself and a strong self concept.  

Intimacy Vs. Isolation:

in this stage of Erickson's theory a young adult must find a life partner or supportive friends in order to avoid social isolation.  This would explain why many young adults feel pressure to get married and have more intimate relationships, both peer based and romantically inclined. 

Intimacy:

While most of us know the general idea of intimacy as relating to physical contact it also includes providing support and affection without losing your sense of self.  This can often be difficult when most young adults are still struggling with their self concept.